8 Tips for Men – How to Make Good First Impression
21.10.2021A good first impression is more important than ever in a world that values social isolation and lockdowns. We all struggle to remember what it takes in business and social situations. It doesn’t matter if you are on your first date or in an interview for a new job. A good impression can make or break a relationship.
Why?
Princeton University research shows that people need only a fraction of second to make a decision about something, particularly when it involves faces. It’s really terrible. Alexander Todorov, the lead researcher, discovered that people subconsciously judge a person’s facial features to determine their character. This association can also be extended to the person’s overall style and grooming.
These snap judgments may be justified or not. However, our brains can’t be controlled. It is important to make the first impressions count. Fortunately, we have the ability to change how we present ourselves within those critical first minutes.
1. Smile
Smiles are the best way to communicate with people. Friendly, positive smiles communicate warmth and enthusiasm. It communicates to others that you are trustworthy and likeable. It can also be used to establish rapport with others during dates, interviews, or any other event. Consider a date as an example. Your smile is one of the first things that a date sees about you. So floss often!
Smiley faces are more than the lips. Eye contact is important too. This shows confidence and openness. People are drawn to people who can be trusted, who are open-minded, who know themselves well, and who they can confide in.
2. Handshake
We’ll admit it, it’s been quite a few years since the last handshake. However, we believe that life is returning to a time when a good handshake will be a great asset at work and in your personal relationships. It doesn’t matter if you are meeting new neighbours or your boss, it is important to know how to properly handshake.
A handshake is basically a combination timing and technique. This can be used when you first meet someone or in conjunction with a greeting. Although it may seem a bit old-fashioned, the person with higher authority or older age will usually be the first to offer their hand.
For technique, use a firm, upright handshake. Handshakes should not be too firm, but they shouldn’t be too weak. It should be straight. Do not flip the hand of the other person as it can indicate that you are trying to take over their lives. Don’t forget about to clean up after yourself.
3. Wardrobe
Your wardrobe is the key to setting the tone. Your wardrobe gives people a sense of who and what you are. You should make sure that what you wear reflects who you are. This is something we’ve heard before. Don’t dress up or down and don’t pretend to be someone you aren’t. You may want to look professional for a job interview, or on a date. However, there are many ways to be authentic.
When choosing the right outfit, think about which colours and shapes best suit your body. The widest range of styles, trends, and customizations available for men’s clothing has evolved.
Not every occasion calls for a suit. These days, it’s especially important to be casual. The old ways of making a good impression no longer work. Sometimes, a suit can make the wrong impression.
All of this comes down to the fine line between under- and overdressing. It is crucial to choose the right wardrobe for your workplace or special event. Accessorize with intention. You can elevate your look by adding cufflinks, pocket squares or a watch.
4. Manners
Do not forget to be polite. It’s easy to forget good manners in casual settings, but you should not do this in front of your boss, date, or anyone else. Bring your best behavior, whether you are meeting your boss for lunch, or going out with a friend to a casual restaurant.
It means that you say please and thank you, don’t interrupt others, and respect others’ opinions.
5. Confidence
There are many ways to project confidence, from the way that you talk to how you dress to the way that you dress. One, make sure you always look at someone when speaking to them. It can indicate to others if your eyes are constantly focused on the ground that you don’t understand what you’re talking about. An interviewer doesn’t want someone who isn’t willing to take on the challenge.
Using confidence-building words is another way. Show that you are knowledgeable about a topic. This will impress the boss you are interviewing for. For speaking confidently, take your time and visualize yourself giving the speech.
6. Grooming and Hygiene
It is important to understand how to dress well, but you must also know the effects of grooming. Both go hand in hand, but they are not the same. If your hair and beard look untidy, even with the best suit, it won’t make any difference to you. You need to be professional if you want to make an impression.
You can improve your grooming by having a well-groomed haircut, a well-maintained beard, and a classic scent. Make sure you do the basics right: shampoo, moisturize, use deodorant, and shower. You don’t want a skincare or hair mistake to ruin your chances of getting a second date.
7. Authenticity
Although authenticity is a modern buzzword that can be used to mean anything, it’s important to remember. When it comes making a good impression authenticity is key. It is important. It is the best way to leave a lasting impression.
Communicate your views honestly and make decisions that are in line with your values. This will allow you to pursue your true passions. In a world saturated with social media, authenticity can be difficult to find. It’s easy to just fit in. It’s not what you want to do when trying to make a good impression. Interviewers are more likely to recall the person who stands out than the one who follows the status quo.
8. Do Your Research
This is more important for interviews than for dates. However, it can be seen as creepy. Always do your research. Interviewers will notice if you don’t know the job description or the mission of the company. Prepare yourself to answer the interviewer’s questions well and bring your own questions.