The 5 Flirting Signs Guys Misunderstand All The Time

So, you want to get a handsome guy’s attention. It can be frustrating to see your adorable outfits, wisecracks and subtle hints going unnoticed. What’s the deal? It doesn’t mean that a guy isn’t interested in your flirting signals. You could be misunderstanding your flirting signals. There are many flirting signs that guys often miss. We can help!

Simply put, men and woman flirt differently and interpret flirting in different ways. It seems obvious to you that your flirting techniques are intended to attract his attention. He might not be able to see what you are trying to do, or even consider your flirtatious behavior. These are the basic signs that men miss when flirting.

The obvious signs that guys are attracted to you

• Dress to impress

It’s not like men don’t notice if you’re nice. They do take notice. Many of them don’t realize that you put in the effort to please them. It’s not because he doesn’t understand why you are trying to impress him with your appearance or outfit.

Instead of trying to be perfect, try to make a connection with people. This is more memorable than the shoes you wore and the lipstick you chose.

• Making compliments

A classic flirting tactic is to pay compliments to a guy. You could tell him that his hair is great, that his shirt is fashionable, that he smells good, and that you are interested in him. Men don’t automatically associate compliments with flirting.

Instead of giving him superficial compliments, give one big one that is more personal and meaningful. You should choose something that shows you are paying attention to his needs and what he is proud of.

• Have fun laughing

Laughter can be a great way for someone to know that you are listening and that you enjoy their company. However, men don’t believe it means they are interested. Actually, men might find it funny to laugh at their jokes. It could lead to a perception of being too hard-working or ditzy.

Instead of laughing at every word he says, smile and laugh when it’s truly funny. He’ll be proud of himself.

• Asking for help

You can ask your boyfriend to grab something from your hand or ask him for assistance with your AC window unit. This is a great way to flirt. You have the opportunity to be his only attention and it allows you to show your self-respect by stroking his ego.

However, men don’t always see flirting with a “damsel-in-distress”. You’ll need to be more specific about why you are asking for his assistance if you want to flirt with him by asking for his help. This leads to…

• Dropping hints

Subtlety is not a good idea for guys. You won’t get a response from him if you ask what he is doing this weekend. You should ask him if he would like to meet up. You should not ask him to recommend any bar in the area, thinking that he will pick up your signal and invite you out for drinks. You should ask him if you want to have drinks. Men don’t understand subtleties so tell him as much as you can about your company and what you want.

These flirting signs that men miss are all a part of a common theme: Most guys don’t see them as flirting. These tactics should not be abandoned. Keep it up, but be more deliberate for the best results. Although you might feel a bit pompous, it is best to be direct if you want to grab a man’s attention.